I picked up Ginger Plowman's Wise Words for Moms the other day. This is a handy cart with great scripture references for speaking wisdom to your children. There are some great heart probing questions to ask your kids. There are bible verses to teach your little ones (and yourself) how to "put off" sinful behavior and how to "put on" righteous behavior.
"You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires, to be made new in the attitudes of your minds, and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." Ephesians 4:22-23
I wish I had this chart years ago. Anyways, I recommend it to all you mamas. I have read Plowman's book "Don't Make Me Count to Three" a few times (I am slow learner). She is fun to read, practical, and is also serious about getting to the heart of the child's behavior (and also the mom's heart during correction). I loved it and also recommend it.
One more recommendation for you mommies. I heard about (from Justin Taylor) this great little set of books for kids. They are called Big Thoughts for Little Thinkers. They just arrived yesterday. We are impressed. Amazon has a good deal where you buy 3 of the books in the set and you get the fourth for free. The four books on on the following topics: