Hopeful Post-Christmas Melancholy

I found this on the desiring God blog.   I thought it was insightful.

Hopeful Post-Christmas Melancholy

December 27, 2008  |  By: Jon Bloom  |  Category: Commentary

(Reposted from last year)

Each year Christmas night finds members of my family feeling some
melancholy. After weeks of anticipation, the Christmas celebrations
have flashed by us and are suddenly gone. And we’re left standing,
watching the Christmas taillights and music fade into the night.



But it’s possible that this moment of melancholy may be the best
teaching moment of the whole season. Because as long as the beautiful
gifts remain unopened around the tree and the events are still ahead of
us, they can appear to be the hope we are waiting for. But when the
tree is empty and events are past, we realize we are longing for a
lasting hope.



So last night, as Pam and I tucked our kids into bed, we talked about a few things with them:

• Gifts and events can’t fill the soul. God
  gives us such things to enjoy. They are expressions of his generosity
  as well as ours, but gifts and celebrations themselves are not designed
  to satisfy. They're designed to point us to the Giver. Gifts are like
  sunbeams. We are not meant to love sunbeams but the Sun.


• Putting our hope in gifts will leave us empty.
  Many people live their lives looking for the right sunbeam to make them
  happy. But if we depend on anything in the world to satisfy our soul’s
  deepest desire, it will eventually leave us with that post-Christmas
  soul-ache. We will ask, “Is that all?” because we know deep down that’s
  not all there is. We are designed to treasure a Person, not his things.


• It is more blessed to give than receive.
  What kind of happiness this Christmas felt richer, getting the presents
  that you wanted or making someone else happy with something that you
  gave to them? Receiving is a blessing, but Jesus is right—giving is a
  greater blessing. A greedy soul lives in a small, lonely world. A
  generous soul lives in a wide world of love.

It’s just like God to let the glitter and flash of the celebrations
(even in his honor) to pass and then to come to us in the quiet, even
melancholic void they leave. Because often that’s when we are most
likely to understand the hope he intends for us to have at Christmas.