The Seven A's of Confession

From Peacemakers Ministries:

As God opens your eyes to see how you have sinned
against others, he simultaneously offers you a way to find freedom from
your past wrongs. It is called confession. Many people have never
experienced this freedom because they have never learned how to confess
their wrongs honestly and unconditionally. Instead, they use words like
these: “I’m sorry if I hurt you.” “Let’s just forget the past.” “I
suppose I could have done a better job.” “I guess it’s not all your
fault.” These token statements rarely trigger genuine forgiveness and
reconciliation. If you really want to make peace, ask God to help you
breathe grace by humbly and thoroughly admitting your wrongs. One way
to do this is to use the Seven A’s.

1. Address everyone involved (All those whom you affected)

2. Avoid if, but, and maybe (Do not try to excuse your wrongs)

3. Admit specifically (Both attitudes and actions)

4. Acknowledge the hurt (Express sorrow for hurting someone)

5. Accept the consequences (Such as making restitution)

6. Alter your behavior (Change your attitudes and actions)

7. Ask for forgiveness

See Matthew 7:3-5; 1 John 1:8-9; Proverbs 28:13.

via: JT